The Advantage

There are multiple benefits to adopting the changing gender roles, and some of them are:

Many studies show that couples who share responsibilities have higher levels of marital satisfaction. Shared household duties and child upbringing creates a sense of teamwork and reduces the resentment that can be felt towards household work if it is one person’s burden to shoulder.

When there is equitable contribution by the couple, it creates a sense of mutual respect and connection on a deeper level

By breaking free from traditions that have always forced men and women into certain roles, both partners can explore their full potential beyond their duties as defined by marriage. By sharing the burden, they can get more time to explore other realms of life and grow in more areas than one.

When the roles aren’t rigid or predefined, it helps the couple become more flexible in the event that any change occurs. If both are equal in participating in the household duties and financial duties, career shifts or changing needs of their children could be an easy task for them to deal with by adapting to the circumstance.

You might wonder that after generations of what HAS to be done, how can you bring a change into what CAN be done? It might seem difficult to navigate through this initially, so here are some tips that can help you:

Openly share your expectations and preferences with your partner before marriage. Understand how you both will manage financial duties, child upbringing and household duties.

While roles might be flexible, it is very important to have shared core values. Discussing your priorities, parenting styles and goals will help understand where you have common ground, and where compromises will have to be made.

Marriage is a partnership, and there will be times where compromises will have to be made. Keep an open mind and try to understand what your partner feels, and see where you can agree and adjust.

Don’t focus on the stereotypes laid down by gender norms. If your partner is a good cook, let them take lead. If there are times when you both have to pitch in and there is no house help, decide fixed chores for both of you so it is easier to complete your defined task.

Support each other professionally and personally, regardless of who achieves more, or who brings the bigger paycheck. A win for one is a win for both in a marriage.

The key to a successful and fulfilling marriage is not about following traditions as they have always been followed. It is about building a partnership based on love, connection and ideas that are important to you both as a couple. Accept changing gender roles and adapt to create a marriage that thrives on mutual support.

At My Sambandh Matrimony, we understand that a successful marriage is based on adaptability and compatibility in values, and a willingness to grow together. Opt for our services to help you connect with partners that share your modern outlook on marriage, and are willing to create a support system based on mutual respect.

Contact us now to begin your journey to a better future!